Lad and Dallen had a chance to help the Boy Scouts of our ward prepare an imu pit! It was a great experience for Dallen to see what an imu pit is and all the preparations that takes place to make it a success. He helped carry "thousands" of rocks into the pit on Monday night and then helped distribute the pans of food cooked in the pit on Thanksgiving morning. It was a good thing for him to help and work - better than being a couch potato! No pictures to share - I completely forgot! Shucks!
On Wednesday afternoon, we all had dental appointments. This was to be Brennen's first visit and I was not sure if he would actually sit in the chair or not. He has, on previous visits to the doctor, screamed "bloody murder" when Dr. Russell was trying to listen to his heartbeat with the stethoscope. I'm not sure why - that is just the way he is. He's my opihi but there are other instances where he shows much more bravery than his brothers. Anyway, he didn't want to go into the exam room so I took him and had him on my lap - then, we reclined and it all broke loose. When our dentist approached him with the little mirror instrument, he started to scream and thrash. He's heavy and tough - it was extremely difficult to hold him. Well, after about 5 (seemed like 10) minutes of that - we gave up. He will have to go to a pedodontist and will probably need to be sedated for his safety for any exams and/or work. The good news - the rest of us didn't have any cavities. The funny thing was when he came back out to the waiting room, he immediately climbed into the stroller and locked himself in. When I came out of my cleaning a half hour later, he was still locked in the stroller. Maybe it was his "safe" place?
That night, the 3 of us (Dallen, Brennen & I - Austen opted to stay with Grandma and Chyler) attended a BYU-Hawaii Seasiders basketball game with Lad. They killed the other team winning by 20 points. It was Brennen's first game ever, I think. He did pretty good. I thought he would watch the game a little more because he's very attuned to anything to do with sports but I guess there was a lot to watch all around us. He ate nachos and drank fruit punch and ran around the arena a few times. My point on Brennen's bravery - close to the half, the Seasiders Gecko mascot came out on the floor. Brennen's eyes immediately locked to the mascot. He was so intrigued! He actually went up the the Gecko by himself 3 times - trying to get his attention. He finally succeeded on try #3 and ended up dancing and holding hands with the Gecko. (I was sick that I forgot the camera...again!!!) Dallen and Austen would never have had the guts to go up to any larger than life mascot at Brennen's age. They are still wary of Chuck E. Cheese when we go there. I can't figure out what is more scary about his pediatrician and his dentist? Maybe if they dress up with big, bobble heads???
Finally, to Thankgiving Day. Our family came to our house and had a wonderfully filling dinner! It is so nice to get together with family and just hang out. My cousin, who has the only other little person in the family here on Oahu, had to leave early to go to her in-laws but the boys had fun with her while she was here. Brennen couldn't wait to get started on my Aunty's famous layered jello and Chyler was seen trying to attack Dallen's plate! All in all, it was a great day!
I am thankful for so many things and probably don't express it quite as often as I should. It's nice to have reminders during the holidays to really make you stop and think about what is important and special in our lives. I am thankful for my family - for parents who have loved and supported me in so many ways. I couldn't have asked for a better Mom and Dad. And I am thankful for my husband - even though he exasperates me probably the most out of anyone, I know he loves me and cares for our family. He works hard and is stretched in a lot of directions (which I tell him is his own doing) and even though he needs reminding about what is most important (US!), I know he does his best to care for us. And I am thankful for my children. For Dallen who I am enjoying more and more. He surprised me tonight - I put all the kids down, Lad was at a game and I came upstairs to blog and left him playing his DS downstairs. Next thing I know I hear him tromping up the stairs. He sits next to me in the office and continues playing. I asked him how come he came up here...he said he was a little scared to be by himself. I thought he was oblivious to anything while playing and it was nice to know that he still needed me. I can't take that for granted. For Austen - I love his sweetness. Yes, he can be very hardheaded but he is the most sweet and affectionate child I have. He is also the biggest helper in our family. He loves to help Lad in the yard. For Brennen, he'll always be my baby. He is the most attached to me and deep down, I love it! I love how he's the one to greet me every morning with a hug and a "Good Morning, Mommy!", always with a smile. And for Chyler - I've been waiting for her so long and she's been well worth the wait. She's always smiling and has brought so much joy to all of us. With her personality coming through more and more, she's such an important part of our family. I am thankful for the gospel - I just can't imagine my life without knowledge of the gospel teachings. What a different life I would have! I am thankful for my home. I am thankful for this beautiful place where we live - we travel and enjoy other places but it is always a welcome relief to come home to Hawaii. Last but not least, I am thankful for my friends who help keep my sanity in check and always make me feel that I'm not alone in my fears and flaws - that is such a priceless gift.
Oh, and I am also thankful for our animal friends. Bunny is there to greet me when I come home wiggling her nose and unlike my children, is always happy to eat what I feed her. And for Sugar Ray - who is such a nut! I took some pictures of him - he sneaks into bed with our sleeping children - there he is with his greatest tormentor, Brennen, after he fell asleep. He's scoping out the birds outside - darn that screen door! And finally, there he is after some Thanksgiving turkey - he wouldn't (or couldn't) move!!






